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iwill-dreaminstead asked: I don't want to be a bitch and please don't take this the wrong way. I'm not doing this anonymously because I believe what I'm about to say isn't that bad. I read your Larry text post and I agree with a few point but I just wanted to say, dont ever make it sound like it is an insult to call them gay ever again. It's not someone would not be insulted if you called them straight and it should be the same for gay.

I am glad you didn’t do it on anon. Anons….are fun, but only when they are funny, in a funny situation. 

But anyway, I didn’t mean for it be, or sound, like an insult. I’m sorry that didn’t get clear. I’m just saying that if I were Louis, or Harry, or any of them, and my fans are constantly on my back about coming out, or my fans constantly assuming I’m gay, I’m saying it’d be annoying, and upsetting. It’d be annoying because he gets this shit CONSTANTLY, and it’d be upsetting because if he were gay it’d effect a lot of things in his life. So, fans calling him gay, or homosexual, even though he made it clear, or tried to make it clear, that he isn’t. 

Now, if he were to come out as gay, I wouldn’t give two shits. That’s his business. As long as the group is together, and as long as they continue to make music, he could go around with guys all he want. But until he confirms the fact that he is gay, I’d say it’s annoying. 

And plus, the Larry Fandom, or the Fandom in general, takes it waaaayyyy too far. What if they aren’t gay? What if Louis just loves Harry, and only Harry? I wouldn’t call that being gay. I would just call it love. In fact, why label same sex as being “gay”? In the past it used to mean “happy”, and then we turn it into something that people use as either an insult, or a label for same sex. Why can’t it just be love. 

By the way, when you say,” Don’t ever make it sound like it is an insult to call them gay ever again.” Who gives anyone the write to tell me, or any other person, to do something based clearly on opinion. You ain’t mah momma.  Just sayin’. Plus, the whole thing wasn’t even meant to be an insult to people who love the same sex. 

Again, just sayin’. 

Thank you for your agreement with some of my points, and massive thank you for your opposing view point on same sex rights. And you should know that I may have been rude in this post, but I felt quite offended, and your post quite made me defensive, and controversial. And you seem to have been offended by my post as well. So, I am sorry that you took my wording in the wrong way.

boywiththeknots asked: I agree with everything you said about Larry. The idea of it is a nice one to have, because the chemistry they have is really awesome and they're two amazing boys, but the fact is that it IS just an "idea". There is no solid proof, the boys haven't come out, nothing like that. I think the fandom takes it waayyy too far. I personally don't think Larry is real. I think they have a bromance and nothing more. But even if it is real, they haven't confirmed anything so it needs to be left alone. :/

Thank you! And EXACTLY. I just think that the whole fandom is too into the idea of them being together. No one knows the truth about it but the band themselves, and themselves. Ha. Ya’know? But anyways, thank you so much for agreeing. 

fanatical-me asked: Hey I just read your post about Larry stylinson, and I have to agree that it's completely unnecessary for people to be calling Louis gay and trying to force him to come out on twitter. Especially when they they do it repeatedly and there are trending topics about it. Personally, I believe they are together and I think it's fine for people to speculate about their relationship when they keep it confined to tumblr and are respectful about it. I totally respect your opinion though! x

Hello! 

Thank you for being nice, and agreeing (to a point) with it.

I do agree with you about the keeping it on Tumblr, or private, part. I mean, I wouldn’t go up to Louis and Harry and be like,” HEY ARE YOU TOGETHER!?!” 1. That’d be embarrassing for me. And 2. I would probably blab a lot about how cool they are, and such things. Ya’know? 

I mean, the COULD be together. It’s possible. It’s just the fact that we don’t actually, truly know, FOR SURE, if it’s legit. 

If I were Louis, and I had fans constantly telling me I’m gay, or have fans that trend stupid topics/things/whatever, I wouldn’t only be pissed, but I’d also be annoyed, upset, and sad.  

I mean, I know a lot of the fans enjoy the IDEA of him being gay with Harry, but I don’t think he’s gay. I don’t think  Harry’s gay either. I don’t even think they are bisexual.  

Now, I do “ship” Larry. I mean, I love the IDEA of them being together.  I do love the fact that they are close. It’s VERY possible that they could be together. It’s SUPER possible that Eleanor could be this so called “beard”. It’s possible, everything’s possible. 

Although,  I ship Larry, and love the idea, but all of this so called “evidence” is stupid. You Larry shippers take things too far with every movement they make. Like, if they were just talking in a normal conversation about soccer.(Yeah, I’m fucking calling it soccer. I’m from fucking America, and WE AMERICANS call it SOCCER. Kay?) And ya’ll could be like,” OMG THEY R LYKE TOTEZ FUKIN’ DEY WUR TALKIN’ BOUT FOOTBALL.” Then you’d make it it all into gay jokes. And then you’d make it a World Wide Trend on Twitter, because you guys have nothing better to do with your lives. 

I mean, CONSTANTLY posting on Harry and Louis’ twitter assuming, and practically, being rude about how he’s gay and stuff is quite annoying, rude, and just over the top. Maybe he is gay, maybe he’s not. Maybe he secretly has feelings for Harry only, and Eleanor could POSSIBLY be a cover up, or MAYBE, just MAYBE, he might actually LIKE/LOVE Eleanor.  Who knows? Who really fucking cares? 

I honestly believe that people who talk rudely about Eleanor is just jealous that she’s really pretty, POSSIBLY nice (I wouldn’t know I don’t know her personally, just like a shit ton of you 1D fans), and that she’s dating Louis. Does jealousy really need to lead to SUPER ABNORMAL hate? I feel bad for her, truly, but I also just have this feeling about her. Something different than what Danielle and Perrie (?) have. I don’t know, but it’s none of my business. 

As sad as it is for me to being saying this. Coming from someone who enjoys the Larry Stylinson tag, and whatever, but I’m just annoyed with the constant,” LOUIS IS SO GAY.” ” HARRY IS SO GAY.” ” OHMYGOD LOUIS IS TOTES HOMESEXUAL”. Specially when it’s mainly Louis getting it. 

I just, don’t know. I’m not against two boys being together, like I say, I ship the idea of Louis and Harry. I just see it realistically, and say, they aren’t gay, they aren’t together, and if they were/are, then give it time and it’s none of our business. 

And don’t fucking call me a Directionator for thinking this way, and don’t even bother calling me a Directioner either. I’m a FAN of the group. I don’t know every second of their lives. I don’t stalk them on Twitter, Google, and where ever you guys get all of this info.  I’m just a fan who enjoys the little fantasy things like Larry Stylinson fanfiction, and stuff like that. 

In conclusion, Larry Stylinson is just a fandom thing, and is not, for sure, real. There isn’t any solid evidence. We can’t just go by what fans say, or record/take pictures of, from a fucking concert. We can’t take these analyses serious. We SHOULDN’T anyway.  But ya’ll are so obsessed with it that you guys have no idea about real things. It’s NOT healthy.

So, why exactly did I post this? Because I’m annoyed with the constant bullshit that people put on Louis’ Twitter about him coming out, calling him homosexual, etc. Again, if I were him, and I’d get all of those tweets, I would be pissed, upset, and hurt. Doesn’t matter if fans accept me if I were gay, or not.  It would totally effect the career he has, and his family, and more.

(This also applies for the rest of the boys too.)

It’s just stupid, rude, and just a;ldkjfa;sldkjf;iowejf;lakdf;lncv.zxncvsa;dlkfj;salkdjf, overboard.

Send me anonymous mail, comments, whatever, I don’t care. Call me a Directionator. Whatever, I’m just saying how it is.  I’m practically saying, I separate my Larry Stylinson feelings from my sane intelligence. (LOLOLOL LIKE I HAVE ANY).

I’m just sayin’.

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